But...but...all my friends are doing it.

hehehe

Guess I'm gonna hafta break down and read the Twilight series. Everyone and their sister is reading it or has read it and I really feel left out. But I've read such wildly conflicting reviews that I'm half afraid I'll hate it. Which is the feeling I get. It's one you either love or hate. You think Edward's chocolate dipped in sexy or he's an obsessive control freak dipped in borderline abusive.

In other teen subjects, anyone else watching ABC Family's Secret Life of the American Teenager? Anyone else think it's a bunch of hooey? I've known a lot of pregnant teens (half of my friends in high school had at least one kid by the time we graduated!) and this show seems to be entirely at odds with the reality of my former teen years. For one, when girls at our school got pregnant it was no big deal. At least not in the way portrayed on this show. No one tried to shame them into quitting, there was no alternative school, no one had to "rally around" them to make them feel better. It was simply part of life.

But heck. Maybe it was my high school experience that was unique and the rest of the world lives like an ABC Family show.

Something else that sort of gripes me about this show--it makes Christians, especially teen Christians, look lame. I've been a card carrying member of Christ's family since I was 11 and I didn't bounce through high school all perky "I can forgive and forget the skank that had sex with my boyfriend and we'll be best friends". Everyone knew I was a Christian not because I had to go around acting all "holier than thou I'm perfect." I don't know exactly how they knew. Maybe it was because I was one of two girls in my class who graduated a virgin (the other was one of my best friends who's dad was a preacher). However they knew, it wasn't because I was some lam-o, snotty goody two shoes. I'll be the first to admit that anyone who has to try that hard to appear that "good" can't possibly be a Christian. The Christian life isn't any easier than anyone else's. Christians struggle with the same issues as everyone else. We're not perfect.

And we're certainly not lame.

At least I'm not.

Much.

But back to Secret Life I just don't see the average American teen's life playing out like that. It's too...I don't know. Perfect. Sweet. Boring.

Don't ask my why I've continued to watch it each week. Hoping for it to get real, maybe.

Or maybe it IS real, and I'm just out of touch.

In even MORE teen news, I watched the newest incarnation of 90210 last night. Will not be making THAT mistake again. I thought they said it was going to be edgier than the previous. The only thing edgy I saw last night was the new Peach Pit.

Blech!

I think I'm just gettin' old.

Comments

Anonymous said…
LOL Jana. thanks for letting me know that Iam not missing anything on the new 90120 front. Loved the original, but it was kind of blah towrads the end. Looks like this is picking up where the original left off. I don't watch that ABC show you are talking about, but I do live with 4 teens and they are evil. I don't remember acting the way that they do. Maybe it's maturity and hindsight that makes me think the kids today are a pretty sad bunch.
Bridget Locke said…
I have the first 3 if you are interested. I tried reading Breaking Dawn, got mad and didn't finish it. Since I'd read spoilers anyway, I just didn't care. It's very, very angsty
Danica Favorite said…
I've been watching that show too... I think some of it a bunch of hooey, too, because the stereotypes are so cheesy. However, I do think it shows a lot of some of the real stuff teens deal with. I actually think it's a must-watch for parents. I think too many parents don't realize what their teens are into.
Heather said…
I knew you'd cave on the Twilight series sooner or later. Just remember that I have never cared much for all the vampire books and loved this series. As for the fourth book...I had mixed feelings about it. Overall I thought it good, though the end, IMO, was a bit...well, I don't want to give anything. If you do read it, we'll talk then. ;)

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